1. Ladies—you should sleep with him when you feel comfortable sleeping with him. If you feel comfortable with sleeping with him two hours in, by all means, do it (safely). To draw upon Julia’s favorite inspiration, remember when Carrie went on her first date with Mr. Big in that naked dress and they totally boned before dinner? The idea that waiting is something you should do with someone you like AT ALL (if you don’t like someone AT ALL and you’re sleeping with him, that would be worthy of a whole other post), demonstrates that withholding sex somehow shows that you care about him MORE. Or that withholding sex is a way to KEEP a guy who would normally run in the other direction after you’ve had sex—a guy who normally views women and sex as a conquest, and now that he’s gotten the milk for free, he can go service another cow or something. I mean, any guy who’s worth your time, your interest AT ALL, will stick around for more if he’s into you and best to find out his true colors sooner rather than later, yeah?

    —  The Frisky (speaking as if she lives in my head)

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